Contrary to what most people fear, web dating is actually a great way to protect yourself from bad actors, bad experiences and wasting your time, if you simply exercise appropriate precaution. Why? Because internet dating gives you a chance to meet hundreds or even thousands of people who want to be your life partner, and weed out all but those who you are seriously interested in before you have to actually meet them and really invest yourself in them. If you are searching for your true love in person, be it in bars or coffee shops or even in your work place or school, before you know a thing about them you have already been persuaded by the great smile or the unique gesture or the swaying of the hips. On the internet, you can take some time to explore who they are before succumbing to their wiles. In person you’re hooked before you’re ready, and you’ll forgive faults too easily in order to maintain the image of perfection you’ve created. On the internet, if you take your time, you may spot that major flaw and you can simply exit the situation, but in person, you will overlook the same flaw because the situation is already too complex to escape. Vietnamese wives are most beautiful and hot.
Choose Your Website With Care
“Free” is a very relative term. It may be free if it costs you nothing to join, nothing to kiss, nothing to meet, nothing to chat, nothing to play games, nothing to scam, nothing to hunt, nothing to kill. The point is that the same site that is free for you is also free for the game players, the scammers and the predators of the world. No website is “free”. It can’t exist without either income or donations. Income is derived from either membership fees, advertising or product sales. Donations are charitable and hardly apply to a dating website. “Free” dating websites make their money from advertising. If they don’t care about your fees, then they don’t care about you. You are a number, not a person, or more specifically not a “member”.
If you only interested in floating along for the ride, in playing the game, in enjoying the hunt, in the thrill of the moment, then you truly belong on and will enjoy a hot Vietnamese woman. And that is where you should be.
On the other hand, if you are truly interested in finding and enjoying a genuine international relationship with a beautiful woman who feels the same way, then choose a website that may not be “free” but that will genuinely respect and care for your interests. You are investing in the single most important component of your life – your spouse, your partner, your soulmate, your true love – is it truly appropriate that such an investment be “free”?
As co-owner of an International Online Dating Site that focuses on International Relationships between Chinese Women and Foreign Men, myself and my staff spend a good deal of time everyday investigating potential Scammers and removing them from the site, answering concerned members’ genuine questions about potential relationship problems with other members and how to resolve them and questions about cultural differences that may be interfering with a growing relationship. The quality “pay” sites will do this for their members, the “free” sites never will. If you really are interested in a true, healthy long term relationship, then choose an online dating site that truly cares. Choose to invest your time and your money in this venture wisely – pick someone who cares and will watch your back, pick someone who will truly guard your interests and your fellow members interests to every extent possible.
Your Life Mate is the single most important investment you will ever make; not your house, not your business, not even your education. Invest wisely.
The General Process
1. Although for some strange reason this seems to be a disease of Russian matchsites in particular, the quest for money is always on and that includes on Chinese Matchmakers such as our site, and on all the other matchmaking sites as well. I may be getting a little specific here because of the nature of our website, but what I am saying applies universlly. If a Chinese Woman asks for money before you’ve even had a nice, serious and personal series of messages and chats, and hopefully a phone call or two, then you have to question not only her true intentions but also her scamming abilities. Most Scammers biggest weakness is their lack of patience. If she wants $20 on her third message to you, then she is going to want a whole lot more later on. A genuine Chinese Girl, like all sincere women, will be very reluctant to ask the man she is hoping to develop a long term relationship with to send her money.